I still remember one Valentine’s Day morning when my niece stood in front of the mirror, hairbrush in hand, already stressed before school even started. She wanted her hair to look “special,” but not too fancy. Cute, but comfy. And honestly, that’s where most of us get stuck, right? Kids want to feel excited and confident, but mornings are rushed and patience is… limited.
That’s exactly why I wanted to write about Valentine’s Hairstyles for Kids. If you’ve ever struggled with flyaways, last-minute tantrums, or a child who suddenly hates every hairstyle they loved yesterday, you’re not alone. Been there. More than once.
In this guide, I’m sharing easy, adorable hairstyle ideas that actually work for real kids and real mornings. No complicated steps, no tears (hopefully), and nothing that feels stiff or uncomfortable. Just sweet, practical styles that make kids feel happy and confident walking into school. Because Valentine’s Day should start with smiles—not stress.
Valentine’s Hairstyles for Kids
Valentine’s Hairstyles for Kids are all about cute, playful looks that make little ones feel extra special on love-filled days. From heart-inspired braids to simple ponytails with bows, these styles are fun, comfy, and perfect for school or parties.
Honestly, heart-shaped braids are one of those styles that look way more complicated than they actually are. I do this a lot on my younger models around Valentine’s season, especially when parents want something “special” but still school-appropriate. I usually start by parting the hair neatly and shaping the braid slowly—no rushing. I’ve found that when I take my time forming the heart, the whole look comes together beautifully without stressing the kid out. And yes, kids notice when you’re calm. They sit better, too.
In my opinion, this hairstyle works best when the hair is slightly damp or prepped with a light leave-in. I always tell parents they can practice the heart shape once or twice at home before the big day. To be fair, the first attempt might look a little wonky—and that’s okay. By the second try, it clicks. Add a tiny elastic at the bottom, maybe pink or red, and the smile I usually get from the child? Totally worth it.
Double Ponytails with Ribbons
Double ponytails are classic, but ribbons take them straight into Valentine territory. I use this style a lot on my models who don’t like braids or sitting too long. Honestly, it’s quick, cute, and very forgiving. I part the hair cleanly down the middle, secure two ponytails, and then weave ribbons through the elastics. I’ve noticed kids love choosing the ribbon color themselves—it makes them feel involved.
To be fair, the key here is placement. Too high and it looks messy, too low and it loses that playful feel. I usually aim just above the ears. I’ve found satin ribbons hold best and don’t snag hair. Parents can easily recreate this at home with minimal tools, which I always appreciate. In my opinion, this style is perfect for school parties or casual Valentine events. It doesn’t scream “overdone,” but it still feels festive and intentional.
This is one of my personal favorites because it looks soft and sweet without being over the top. I often suggest this when parents want something different but still simple. I take two small sections from the front, twist them into a heart shape at the back, and secure them gently. Honestly, the trick is not pulling the twists too tight—looseness makes the heart look fuller and cuter.
I’ve found this works beautifully on straight or slightly wavy hair. If the child has layers, a little styling cream helps keep flyaways in check. In my opinion, this is a great “in-between” style—not fully tied, not fully open. Parents can do this at home by practicing the twist once or twice. And to be fair, even if the heart isn’t perfectly symmetrical, it still looks charming. Kids don’t want perfect; they want cute and comfortable.
Braided pigtails with bows
Braided pigtails with bows never fail. I’ve done this style so many times that it’s almost muscle memory now. I usually braid the hair loosely to keep it soft, then finish with bows at the ends. Honestly, the bows do half the work—they instantly say Valentine’s Day. Kids tend to love this look because it feels fun, not stiff.
I always tell parents to avoid super tight braids here. I’ve found that looser braids last just as long and feel way better on a child’s scalp. In my opinion, fabric bows are better than plastic clips because they’re lighter. This hairstyle is great for long school days because it stays put without constant fixing. To be fair, it’s not flashy, but it’s reliable—and sometimes that’s exactly what you want for kids.
Side braids are such a safe choice, especially for kids who move a lot. I often recommend this when parents want something neat but playful. I braid the hair to one side and add heart-shaped clips along the braid. Honestly, those little clips make all the difference. Without them, it’s just a braid. With them, it’s Valentine-ready.
I’ve found this style works best on medium to long hair. A little smoothing serum helps keep the braid clean, especially around the hairline. In my opinion, parents can easily recreate this by focusing on one clean braid and letting the accessories shine. To be fair, kids might fidget while you clip things in—but once they see the hearts, they usually sit still. It’s one of those styles that looks thoughtful without requiring advanced skills.
Bubble Braids with Pink Elastics
Bubble braids are always a hit with kids. I use pink or red elastics to keep the Valentine theme strong. Honestly, this style is great for parents who struggle with traditional braiding. You just section the ponytail and add elastics, gently pulling each section to create that bubble shape.
I’ve found this works best when the hair is smooth before starting. A quick brush and a bit of leave-in conditioner make a huge difference. In my opinion, this is one of the easiest styles to recreate at home, even on busy mornings. To be fair, it might not last through rough play, but it holds well enough for school and photos. Kids love how bouncy it feels, and that alone makes it worth doing.
Space buns are bold, fun, and surprisingly practical. I usually suggest this for kids who love playful looks. I part the hair down the middle, twist each side into a bun, and secure them well. Honestly, adding cute accessories like mini hearts or bows takes it from everyday to Valentine-special instantly.
I’ve found that keeping the buns slightly loose makes them more comfortable. In my opinion, this style works best on medium to thick hair, but thinner hair can pull it off with good elastics. Parents can recreate this by focusing on clean parts and secure bases. To be fair, it’s not for kids who hate hair being touched—but for the ones who love fun styles, it’s a total win.
Low Ponytail with Ribbon Wrap
This is such an underrated style. A low ponytail wrapped with ribbon looks polished but still sweet. I often use this when parents want something calm and neat. I secure the ponytail low, then wrap ribbon around the elastic, tying it softly. Honestly, it looks way more elegant than the effort involved.
I’ve found this works beautifully on straight or softly waved hair. In my opinion, velvet or satin ribbons elevate the look instantly. Parents can easily do this at home without worrying about precision. To be fair, it’s not the most playful style—but it’s perfect for kids who prefer simple looks. It holds well all day and doesn’t need much adjusting.
Crown Braid with Mini Flowers
Crown braids feel magical, especially for Valentine’s Day. I do this style when parents want something fairy-like. I braid around the head and tuck in mini flowers along the braid. Honestly, kids light up when they see themselves with this hairstyle—it feels special.
I’ve found that prepping the hair with light texture spray helps the braid stay in place. In my opinion, faux flowers are better for kids because they last all day. Parents can recreate this by doing a loose braid and pinning carefully. To be fair, it takes a bit of patience, but the end result is worth it. It’s one of those styles that looks straight out of a storybook.
Sometimes, the simplest styles work best. Loose hair with a heart headband is perfect for kids who don’t like tied hair. I usually smooth the hair gently and place the headband securely. Honestly, that’s it—and it still looks adorable.
I’ve found this works great for short or medium hair. In my opinion, choosing a comfortable headband matters more than anything. Parents can recreate this in minutes, which is a huge plus on busy mornings. To be fair, it’s not the most elaborate style, but it’s practical and cute. And for some kids, that’s exactly what Valentine’s Day hair should be.
Hair Care Tips for Kids on Valentine’s Day
When it comes to Valentine’s Day hairstyles for kids, comfort and hair health should always come first. Kids love cute styles, but their hair and scalp are sensitive, so keeping things gentle and stress-free helps them enjoy the day without fuss or discomfort.
Use gentle, kid-friendly products: Choose mild shampoos, conditioners, and styling products made especially for children to avoid irritation.
Avoid tight hairstyles: Very tight braids or ponytails can pull on the scalp and cause discomfort, so keep styles loose and relaxed.
Detangle hair properly before styling: Always comb through knots gently using a wide-tooth comb to prevent breakage and tears.
Keep styles simple for long wear: Simple hairstyles last longer, feel lighter, and let kids play freely throughout the day.
Hi, I’m Anna Spencer, A professional hairstylist based in North Carolina and the creator of Hairstyles for Life. With over a decade of hands-on salon experience, I’ve styled everything from everyday looks to runway-ready transformations. I started this website to share my passion for hair, offer expert tips, and help you feel confident in your personal style no matter your hair type or length. Whether you’re looking for quick tutorials, timeless trends, or honest product advice, you’ll find it all here.